No matter how you show up, 
people will see you through 
their lens - a lens shaped by 
their wounds, their longings, 
their tears. By the love they 
were given or not given. 
By the stories they've told 
themselves - carefully pieced 
together through years of 
lived experiences.
We can't control how other people 
see us - we can only choose 
the freedom that comes 
from no longer trying.

(Helen Marie)